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From: Jeren
Date: 3/2/2004
Time: 2:12:15 AM
Remote Name: 198.81.26.102
I ran across this site and your feelings really came close to me. I think you've been victimized, and now you are justifiably very angry. If an adult invades a child's innocence, they can ruin that child for life. Only the child, as he grows older, can undo the psychological damage done. If he doesn't, he will never stop living with it. It takes great spiritual and mental strength(I'm not religious)to overcome the experience, or it becomes a permenant nightmare that interfers with everything, from motivation to concentration to real emotions and to natural sexual and social developement. I don't know if this will help you to understand to not let the sickness of this one man become your own sickness. Im not an expert, but I know positve input helps. This man has left you with task to overcome what he has done, and blowing him away might feel good for a second, but it just makes it worse. It probably happened to him but he was too weak to dispel it, so he put that hex on another child. Be strong, my friend, and you will be the better man for it; you will dispel it, accept it, overcome it and win. Don't be afraid to report him and let the court put him away. You have nothing to be afraid of. Thanks, Jeren